Could you post some examples? Or describe each of these in more detail? What makes a “good” photo? How do you write a well written profile? Great Headline?
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Wow, great question. There is a lot too this actually so I will try and be as specific as I can with all of it. This might get to be a long answer but you’ll have it down when we are done.
First of all, the most important thing by far with any part of your online profile is “congruence” with your personality. When a woman sees you being incongruent she thinks this profile is not really you and will get away quickly. My point with this is when I saw I’m going in my online profiles, I have pictures of me out in bars, clubs, doing stuff. I don’t have pictures of me standing in my house alone.
The other thing with pictures is you definitely want to show you being active. Okay, one maybe two photos of you at home or something lilke that is fine. Still you want photos of doing whatever it is that you do on a regular basis. If you run have pictures of you running. If you play basketball then get a picture of you doing that. I think you get my point on this aspect.
Moving right along. If you have all your pictures on this profile. In some cases you might have 10 pictures or more. You want pictures of yourself with both your guy friends and women. Of course the pictures with women demonstrate pre-selection right. Well the pictures of men can help show “Leader of Men” qualities. But more importantly that leader of men, the pictures of you with guys show her that you do have friends and people like being around you.
One of the things I personally am concious of in the photo is what I am wearing. When I posted my latest successful ad on Craigslist. I had two back to back Lays and then 6 dates with that. Not bad. Anyways, in the ad I hate different styles. In one picture it was just me in a graphic t-shirt. Then another with a slightly more casual look. Then one with a dressy or snappy casual tone where I was wearing a sport coat and jeans. I like to show that I can be relaxed or dressed up a bit. Women take this into consideration. If the girl looking at this likes to go to nice places she can see me going there. IF she likes being more laid back she can see that too.